About

Love After War is about supporting intimate relationships for wounded service members, veterans, and their partners.

"Failed intimate relationships contribute significantly to suicide, intimate partner 
violence and child abuse, reduced quality-of-life, homelessness, and substance abuse." 

The RAND report Invisible Wounds of War: Psychological and Cognitive Injuries, Their Consequences, and Services to Assist Recovery (2008)

 

OUR VISION

“We were concerned about what our relationship would be like. We had always wanted to start a family”

Veteran Aaron Causey and spouse Kat Causey, on adjusting to catastrophic injury.

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Love After War: Supporting Intimate Relationships for Wounded Warriors and Their Families. Our documentary will showcase the real stories of individuals and couples who are surviving and thriving after catastrophic combat-related injuries. In their own words these folks will share how they overcame relationship issues and restored emotional closeness and physical intimacy. The documentary will also feature professional insights from experts in the field of sexuality and disability. 

VETERANS AND LOVED ONES

Army Sgt. 1st Class Aaron Causey, an explosives technician with 760th Explosive Ordnance Disposal Company, suffered multiple limb loss, extensive genital injuries, and TBI after stepping on an IED in Afghanistan. He was married to Kat Causey for 18 months when he was injured. They decided to pursue having a child using assistive reproductive technology before separating from the military in order to have their expenses covered. They now have a beautiful baby girl.

Tyler Wilson, a young 20 year-old Paratrooper serving with the US Army’s 173rd Airborne Brigade, single at the time, was shot multiple times during a firefight in southern Afghanistan resulting in spinal cord injury and lung damage. He is now 31, recently married to Crystal, a recreational therapist he met in a handcycle clinic, and, at the time of filming, had a baby on the way with the help of IVF and many friends. Crystal has since given birth to a healthy baby boy.

CBRN (Chemical, Biological, Radiological, and Nuclear) specialist Manny Gonzalez was 20 years old, single, and serving in Marine Wing Support Squadron 372 when he suffered second and third degree burns to 80 percent of his body including his face while rescuing a fellow Marine from a brush fire during a routine training exercise. It took him 16 years to get the confidence up to ask someone out on a date. He is now 40 years old, married for two years with two stepchildren and a 19- month old son.

United States Army Airborne Casey Kimes is 100% disabled secondary to PTSD and severe TBI along with hearing loss and multiple orthopedic injuries. Tai Tosombra experienced military sexual trauma (MST). Tai and Casey’s marriage was very strained after Casey’s first 18-month deployment when he returned home with undiagnosed PTSD. Eleven years later Casey’s Facebook page is located at Tai and Casey’s Love Shack.

John and Jasmine Fillmore both served but met and married after their service. John was shot in the head with an AK 47 round and suffered a TBI in addition to PTSD, anxiety, depression, mild hearing loss, some vision impairment and is at high risk for suicide. Jasmine experienced TBI and physical injuries secondary to MST where she was attacked from behind and hit on the head; she is blind, deaf, and has weakness in her legs. John met Jasmine in a Veterans outdoors program some dozen years after his injury and they were married nearly 8 months at the time of the interview.

Capt. Tim Hornik is blind as the result of getting shot through the head in Iraq. Coming back as a person with a disability instead of a strong, capable soldier, Tim took his anger and frustrations out on his wife. Through share stubbornness on both of their parts, they made it through the darkness. He and his wife are now happily married with a beautiful 8-year-old child and another one on the way. 

 

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PRODUCTION STAFF

Dr. Mitchell Tepper, Executive Producer/Producer/Writer

Dr. Mitchell Tepper is a sexologist who has been living a full life with spinal cord injury for nearly 35 years. He has long been personally and professionally dedicated to ending the silence around sexuality and disabilities. Dr. Tepper has been working with wounded veterans since speaking at the Road to Recovery Conference for wounded veterans in 2006. Through spearheading the Wounded Troops and Partners: Supporting Intimate Relationships Conference in Washington DC in 2008, he was successful in getting the issue of sexual health and intimacy for wounded warriors on the national radar. He assisted the Bob Woodruff Foundation in organizing their High Impact Collaboration Conference, From Injury to Intimacy, in 2014. He has been instrumental in the implementation of couple's retreats within the VA system and in training members of the Sexual Health and Intimacy Workgroup at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center. Dr. Tepper has published peer reviewed articles in medical and sexual health journals on comprehensive sexual health care for catastrophically injured warriors.

Dr. Tepper, producer of Love After War, has also produced the critically acclaimed Sex and Paralysis Video Series. 

Dr. Mark Schoen, Director/Producer

Mark Schoen received a Ph.D. from New York University’s Human Sexuality program in 1980. While enrolled in New York University Schoen spent two summers in Uppsala, Sweden studying Sexual Health Education at Uppsala University. Working as a Health Educator in the early 1970’s in a New York public school system he developed a Sexual Health Program and began producing short films.

In 1979 Dr. Schoen established Focus International, a company devoted to producing and distributing sexual health films primarily to universities and clinicians. He produced many of the popular, early sex therapy films, wrote the children’s book, Bellybuttons Are Navels and produced the award winning film of the same title.

In 1998, The Sinclair Institute hired Dr. Schoen as Director of Sex Education. He moved from New York to Chapel Hill, North Carolina. From 1998 – 2006 he produced more than thirty films that are currently in distribution including the best selling revision of The Better Sex Video Series.

From 2006 – 2009 Schoen served as one of 16 members on the National Advisory Council on Sexual Health led by former U.S. Surgeon General Dr. David Satcher.

In 2007 Dr Schoen moved to Pasadena, CA started working as an Independent producer. During this time he produced and directed Betty Dodson: Her Life of Sex and Art. This film won Best Feature Documentary at FilmOut, San Diego (2008) and won The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists Best Film Award (2009)

Dr Schoen served on the Board of Directors of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (2007-2008) and continues to serve on the Board of the Foundation for the Scientific Study of Sexuality.

Dr. Schoen is the Founder of SexSmartFilms.com, an online resource for preserving, archiving and streaming sexual health films. There are currently more than 350 films that are being viewed worldwide.

He recently produced an animated short film The True Story of How Babies are Made that received the honorable mention from The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists Best Film Awards (2010).

Schoen received the Distinguished Public Service Award from the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (2010) and the AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors) Professional Standards of Excellence Award (2010).

Dr. Schoen is quoted in many publications and has appeared on numerous television & radio shows during his career.

 

Joanne Hershfield, Editor

Joanne Hershfield is Professor Emeritus of the Department Women’s and Gender Studies at UNC-Chapel Hill. Prof. Hershfield is also a documentary film producer. Recent films distributed nationally and internationally include Mama C: Urban Warrior in the African Bush, the story of Charlotte O’Neal, a former member of the Kansas City Black Panther Party, a poet, musician, artist, and community activist, who has lived for over forty years as an “urban warrior in the African Bush” in the Tanzanian village of Imbaseni; These Are Our Children, a one-hour documentary film that reveals how the devastating effects of poverty, HIV/AIDs, and violence on Kenyan children are successfully being reduced through local grassroots interventions; and Men Are Human, Women are Buffalo, a film about violence against women in Thailand. Other films include Women in Japan: Memories of the Past, Dreams of the Future that challenges stereotypes about what it means to be a woman in Japan; The Gillian Film, a moving portrait of an exceptional young woman who works at a local veterinary clinic, rides horses, takes dance classes, and is developmentally disabled. 

 

Antonio Garcia, DP and Editor of Pilot Interview

Antonio is a filmmaker at Georgia State University who has had three films shown at the Cannes International Film Festival.

 

Accolades

The pilot interview for Making Love After Making War was chosen to be screened at the annual conference of the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Here's their reactions to the film represented in a word cloud:

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We can’t do this without you. Wounded soldiers need your help. Contribute now and get this crucial film out to the people who desperately need it. Whether you are able to contribute financially or not, you can help by spreading the word. Share this campaign today through Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, anywhere and everywhere you can.
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